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這個故事是說potatoes,eggs and coffee beans的吧。主要的是教導遇到一樣的遭遇時,我們可以沒有選擇發生甚麼事情,但是我們能選擇怎麼面對。

我找到原來的故事再發鏈接。


試煉如同沸水 從3種沸水煮熟的食物學習經歷試煉的智慧

沸騰的滾水就像人所面對的困境,當人在當中會產生什麼變化?面對困境的智慧就在其中。

勵志演說家謝蒂.傑(Jay Shetty)是美國赫芬頓郵報網路視頻播客,近來在拍攝《從馬鈴薯、雞蛋、咖啡豆中學到人生智慧》短片,不只在網路上造成熱烈回響,更令人思考面對逆境的智慧。

這支影片主要想表達,生活中必定有大大小小的困難,常讓人無法避免地跌入低潮,因此與其逃避困難,不如改變面對逆境時的想法。

片中,一位父親在廚房準備午餐時,女兒愁眉苦臉的來到廚房,且告訴他在學校正面臨人際關係的困境,父親便拿起鍋子裝水,將水燒開,並將現成的馬鈴薯、雞蛋、咖啡豆放進沸騰的滾水裡,隔了20分鐘後再放在盤子中,且問女兒這些材料發生什麼變化。

女兒聽了一知半解,因為馬鈴薯和雞蛋都沒什麼變化,只有咖啡豆變成咖啡。父親才告訴她,沸騰的滾水就像「人生面臨的困境」,而馬鈴薯、雞蛋、咖啡豆如同不同特質的人,有的堅硬,有的脆弱,可是它們經過滾水煮熟之後,卻產生不同的變化。

有的人像馬鈴薯那樣,看起來硬邦邦,但是經歷一番波折後,變得更加柔軟;有人像雞蛋那樣,看似脆弱,但經歷患難後則變得更堅強;有人則像咖啡豆,煮熟後改變型態,靈活地改變思維解決問題。

人生肯定會面對到許多難題,但它們都不是重點。重要的是,靠著恩典經歷逆境的試煉,你可以變得更加柔軟,你可以變得堅強,你也可以變得更靈活,經歷試煉後,就會發現自己成了不一樣的人。

忍受試探的人是有福的!因為他經過試驗以後,必得生命的冠冕,這是主應許給那些愛他之人的。─雅各書1:12

http://www.cdn.org.tw/News.aspx?key=10687


Struggles of our Life

Once upon a time, a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed. Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.

Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup.

Turning to her, he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?” “Potatoes, eggs and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer”, he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft.

He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity-the boiling water. However, each one reacted differently. The potato went in strong, hard and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak. The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard. However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which one are you?” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Moral: In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you choose to react to it and what you make out of it. Life is all about leaning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experience into something positive.

https://www.moralstories.org/struggles-of-our-life/


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